Monday, 28 July 2014

All that glitters IS Gold!


"Woah!! Look at his dressing sense... 

I admire her confidence... 
She has a killing smile! Let me go and start a conversation with her! "

"This child's answer sheet is so neat, 5 Points Extra! 
That shop (with great interiors) seems to have great stuff...Lets go shopping!
I am going to shop on website ABC.com, their packing is super impressive!"

Another take from Life today is "Presentation Matters" in your personality and work!

Almost at every step in life, knowingly or unknowingly, we have been giving 5 points extra to presentation, appearance, look and feel and yet, we teach our kids - 'All that glitters is not Gold'? The truth is that we must teach our children that as much critical is our knowledge, equally essential is our presentation. 

Presentation in your personality comprises of three main mantras - Confidence, Smartness and Fashion Sense, or in short - Love yourself! Not all Indians are taught to be fashionable. We are always asked to be knowledgeable , and the rest will follow. But the truth is, A guy would say that a girl gets bonus points for being a girl; A girl would say, that she got more attention 'coz she is smart! So, knowledge matters a lot, but your personality is what brings you to the limelight. And if you are confident, strong in your opinions, looks and passion, then no one can ever pull you back! Same applies to work. You may have worked all night and invented the best phone in the world. But An Apple Iphone will in the end, pull off more than a Nokia Smartphone? 

The world is attracted to beauty by nature, and it is high time we accept the truth and work towards it :) 

Now, just so I am clear, beauty does not mean being fair, with lovely features, and expensive clothes and makeup! It just means, wearing a smile, taking adequate sleep, to have a glow on the face, dressing up to what the occasion demands, even if it is not expensive, and more than all, your strong confident nature. Be the heart of the party!

A short poem - 
I worked all night, and walked in the meeting room next day,
looking like Einstein, with my hair hay-way and my eyes so gray. 
My confidence went low as I saw my peers tease and giggle.
Work well presented, but somewhere in my heart, there was a drizzle.
This guy who was next, spoke well and was smartly dressed, 
His work was average, but people were impressed.

I realize now, the secret sauce is confidence, smartness and speech.
Love thyself, and Feel Supreme, is what I will preach

By nature, World IS ALWAYS attracted towards beauty,
Be Assured, Your Knowledge coupled with Appearance will always come handy. 

So, go ahead, Show Off, Be smart and Bold!
In the beginning and In the end, All that Glitters is Gold!
-Written by me

Sunday, 27 July 2014

The best teacher is Life. Experience It!

Whether it is riding on a cycle for the first time, or starting a business, your first and best teacher will be life — fall, stand up and do it again!
“I was leaving for office early morning, and noticed a 2 year old with her mother riding a cycle. Her mother supported her initially, but after a few minutes, she let the baby fall and stand up by herself...”
Yes! We experienced it when we were kids, and we experience it today. Our friends, family, teachers, investors, and everyone we know, support us initially, or should I say guide us. But, we still fall! A startup is no easy game!

When a little one struggles to walk, or when a new career path is unlocked,
When you are blessed with a new born, or when a new idea sees the dawn,
Failure, Happiness and Pleasure, every step unfolds,
Mistakes are natural, but the talent and confidence in you, seldom withhold.
Break free and Dance in the rain! Fall, Stand-up and Do it again!
- Written by me :)

Tuesday, 22 July 2014

Exercise, Dance, Play!!

We eat, sleep, work/study everyday.
Dance, Exercise, Play is an important daily routine that is as critical for the body as eating and sleeping.
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Don't be Modest!

From childhood, My parents, teachers, relatives and all elders always taught me to be MODEST! But As I grew, I realized this is an incorrect teaching, I will never ever teach my kids!
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Show Off to the world about what you are! A great designer, a great writer, singer or dancer, cook, or traveler. Just say it!
Why shouldn’t we brag about ourselves? 
The first question asked in an interview is - ‘Tell us your 3 most amazing qualities about yourself’. The first question asked in a marriage - ‘Tell us something about yourself’. Can you be or Should you be modest here? No Ways! Just be yourself, because you are not born to impress anyone. 
It’s a right saying that ' I am drunk therefore I am '.
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So, lets start teaching our kids to boast about themselves, be confident, and let the world know about their accomplishments, their talent and their passion! 
A short poem - 
When I stayed silent, they said I knew nothing..
When I bragged, they thought I was showing!
When I spoke to myself, there was no motivation.
When I shared my achievements, I received appreciation.
I will share with the world - my talent, my passion. 
Call me a boast if you wish, but you WILL LOVE me for my actions! 
- Written by me :)

Take One - Don't run behind time!

I am starting this blog with an idea to inculcate the feeling of positivity among my peers, kids and myself :) . 
There may be a lot of people feeling bored, depressed, and lonely at some point in life, but remember this phase shall end. We all need to speak to our near and dear ones. I am not feeling very good today, so I am taking up writing, my childhood passion.
"The idea is to speak to everyone in the world, when you don't find one good ear! You will feel a lot lighter!"

Now, Back to cheering up!

We all experience multiple things everyday in our life, Some good and some bad. But, what we always end up talking about is the bad experience. Its time we start jotting down one new learning everyday. Its time we start following our passion, do things that make us happy, write, speak, laugh and enjoy life! 
My one take from life today is that you will never have time ! So, lets just start making the most of it now !
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"Speed is a powerful drug, seducing us into believing that we have no time to waste."
-Marilyn Herasymowych
"The young are always coming up with the good ideas; it’s because they waste time. They follow their passion and do something, not looking for a payoff, just doing what’s interesting."
-Kevin Kelly